- I'd connect with a community of loss and infertility parents that understand, accept and affirm my emotions....But I do - and they rock.
- I'd write for a magazine that makes a difference - that raises awareness about our struggles and losses ...But I do - and I am so very grateful. I love every minute of it.
But -I REALLY never thought I'd get a chance to interview* Elizabeth McCracken. In fact, I thought I got darn lucky to get a galley copy of her memoir, An Exact Replica of a Figment of my Imagination - and it was just that - timing and dumb luck.
Much like a new lover takes solace in the other - I whipped through it the first time in two days, and then took my time the second time around. I dissected her emotions, nodding and crying - yes, yes - that is exactly how I felt. I laughed - oh, how I laughed - I mean, I can't think about the book without cracking a smile in memory of the Dwarfs of Grief and wondering why they weren't employed by my hospital. It would have been a nice reprieve. But most of all I was nearly jumping for joy that a babyloss memoir had finally cracked into the big time, (um - she did have a spot in O-magazine!) and that the general all-pregnancies-end-in-a-live-baby public would finally hear our story.
And then - the suggestion that knocked me for a loop. "Why don't you do the interview?" wrote my fellow Exhale columnist Christina Gombar, "...because you and Elizabeth have experienced the same thing -- loss of a child, followed by healthy birth."
I jumped at the chance, combing the book a third time as I scribbled notes that eventually fleshed out into full-fledged interview questions. Elizabeth was kind and gracious enough to answer all my questions, regardless of her current full time mommy status.
What a treasure of an experience and I think the final interview found: HERE - has a lot to say about life after loss.
Thank you blogosphere. Thank you Exhale (Monica impeticular). And Thank you Elizabeth.
You make this journey more fulfilling each and every day.
Oh - and while you're over there you might as well peruse the other literary and artistic offerings this month's issue has to offer including my current column: Believing Without Seeing.
In Grief and Love - Cara
* - updated to clarify that our communication was through email but her gracious nature came through loud and clear!
6 comments:
Amazing, Cara. I'm privileged to know you and share in your journey.
<3 to your 3 girls
I absolutely loved the interview! So well done--what a thrill.
Great article! And congratulations (is that appropriate to say?!!) on getting the interview! How cool :)
Great interview. I am envious you got to speak to her:)
Great interview, Cara. I devoured her book and love hearing more from her.
I rather enjoyed your interview. It was a great article :)
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